To get over break up blues is to be your best self. Some people take years to get rid of heartache, while others can shrug it off over the weekend. The only healthy way to finding true love is to have the right frame of mind, especially after a bad break up.
Get Over Break Up Blues by Finding the Source of Excuses
Some people aren’t really going through break up blues – they’re just piling on the excuses for not continuing their quest of finding true love. Self-victimization is the worst enemy of soulmate love. If you feel that you have been wronged in some way, you might be right. However, find out why you’re building “excuse walls” between you and potential soulmate love. Could it be that you simply don’t want to deal with the hurt that you’ve been put through? Does is shame you every time you think of how you were dumped? As bad as it was, one thing can sustain you – the belief that things can only get better.
Are you Serious?
Read no further than this if you want to continue a life of excuses, because nothing will change if that’s the case. The first step is to backtrack and ask yourself if you are really serious about finding true love. It’s that simple! Most people don’t ask that question, so they go through life with neither an answer nor a soulmate. The deep-rooted programming of your mind that tells you that you aren’t good enough is a load of rubbish. Reprogram your mind to accept who you are and learn to love yourself.
The extreme version of this is narcissism, and that is definitely unhealthy. However, everyone needs a measure of self-love in order to live a happy and healthy life. Besides, it is the only way to get others to love you. If you can’t love yourself, how can you expect others to – especially your soulmate? Self-love puts you in a positive mindset about yourself, and that Law of Attraction will automatically step in and fill the gaps for you.
Taking action on anything is hard, but when it comes to finding true love, it can be doubly hard because of self-doubt. Action, in fact, is the only known antidote to self-doubt. Forcing yourself to take one step is a huge leap of faith; and that is the real key to success in finding true love. Put yourself out there, and the universe will find you and take care of your needs.